Adds an optional MEM0_BASE_URL override (env var, falling back to
settings.json's base_url, defaulting to the hosted Platform unchanged)
so the plugin's REST-backed hooks can talk to a self-hosted server/
deployment instead of api.mem0.ai.
A new scripts/_api.py centralizes the hosted-vs-self-hosted protocol
differences (unversioned paths, X-API-Key auth, agent_id instead of
app_id) that every hook previously hardcoded, and all 9 urllib call
sites now route through it.
MCP tools have no self-hosted backend (server/ implements no MCP), so
they continue to talk to the hosted Platform regardless of
MEM0_BASE_URL; this is documented rather than silently left unclear.
Coding-category customization also has no self-hosted SDK equivalent
and now skips cleanly with a log message instead of failing.
Closes MEM-5647
kartik-mem0